Linda Adsetts is here with her weekly Go for the Joy message from The Group. Enjoy!
Everyone has a dream of the great romance. One perhaps, where your eyes will meet across the room and kaboom, true love. You rush into each others arms and wonder where they have been all your life. Or perhaps, it is knight in shining armour or a maiden in distress each of you fulfilling a need for each other. Or, how about the great love that conquers all the obstacles of families, culture and distance. Most of us grew up listening to and absorbing the fairy tales of our culture and many women brought that image forward into their adult life. One day my knight will come. Men have also absorbed cultural patterns. Perhaps if I can make enough, jump high enough or shower her with gifts she will look my way. Inside each of us, we are silently pleading; please see me-please see me and love me, love me. The me that is unsure, the me that doesn’t quite feel good enough, the me that thinks if only I did it this way instead of that way, looked different, acted different, was different!
And then it becomes too much. All you wanted was a little romance-someone to love you. The Group has added that last sentence. We want you to know that you cannot be loved fully in the way that matters to you until you love yourself. Until that happens you will be constantly looking outside of yourself for validation that you are lovable. When you are able to accept everything about yourself-even the parts that you consider unacceptable-most especially those, you will never find the love you crave. The love and romance you crave is first inside of yourself and then you will find that the world will mirror that for you.
Each of you was born a love being. The romance you crave is with yourself and for the place you are landed in. You are trying to remember who you are-a magnificent being of light and love-period-each and every one of you, but primarily it begins with you. When you love yourself, the whole world will reflect that back to you. Your perceptions of yourself and the world around-the people around you will change. You will find yourself in love with everything-piece by piece-little by little until you are burning with love for everything! Everything-we promise.
So how do you come to this? Don’t be afraid of yourself. Be gentle with yourself. Everyone wants the same thing. Everyone has the same burning desire in them to be love. You are not so different from each other as you would think. Love can show up in many disguises. We call it life. Sometimes you recognize instantly a fellow comrade-one who shows up at just the right time to awaken in you that calling. It may not always look pretty-it may not always turn out well but you have agreed to co-create with each other in order to remember. Once the remembrance is complete you may well find yourself fully in love with that individual, but only because you remembered the worth that you inherently hold as a human being. Sometimes that human exits your life because you remembered and they were unable to remember and sometimes they leave because it was complete for both of you.
There are as many scenarios as there are unique individuals and contracts to play out. “I will help you to remember.” you say to each other, before you landed on planet earth. I will be there for you in ways that others will not or cannot. Sometimes it isn’t so pretty but the end result can be beautiful. You will have found your way back to you-a being of love whose whole trajectory is to be love in all its many guises.
Romance yourself dear ones and in that doing you will find the romance you so crave. It first, as with anything, begins with you and then it mirrors itself back to you. When that mirror shows you love and acceptance and caring and camaraderie and peace, you will know without a doubt that you stepped back into yourself-a being made to love.
Light a few candles for yourself-celebrate who you are now in all of your glory-warts included-though we do not see those-we only see you.
Magnificent beings of love and light-period-each and every one of you who are remembering that
Going for the joy is a very good thing.
Linda Adsetts is a healer, medium, psychic reader, channeller and writer. She receives channelled guidance and inspiration from The Group, a gathering of spirit who teach that our souls’ path is best expressed when we come from a place of joy. You can read how Linda got started down this fascinating path here and on her website where she shares daily messages from The Group.
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