They may still think that you are weird but…

Linda Adsetts and The Group are here with their weekly Go for the Joy message. Enjoy!

Two Tier Society Limited Edition Giclee print depicting two strands of society, one weird, one strange. They compete for the Jollity award.   by David Elliott
Two Tier Society depicting two strands of society, one weird, one strange.
They compete for the Jollity award.
by David Elliott


Community is a coming together of people who benefit by being together. The benefits are not always the same. That is because you are not all the same.

But, when you feel like you will benefit by being within a community you will do all sorts of things in order to contract yourself in order to fit in. Then there are those who feel like they will benefit and don’t have to contract at all-it suits them perfectly.

To those people we do not speak to. It is kind of like this-if it isn’t broke, then don’t fix it. If you are happy in your chosen community then leave it alone until you aren’t.

But, for those of you who feel contracted in your chosen communities you have some choices you could make.

You can continue to fold and mutilate yourself in order to fit in or you can find yourself another community.

Or, here is something interesting for you to muse upon. You don’t necessarily have to leave that community. You could commune with us.

Sometimes, you are where you are and we know that sounds simplistic, but if you are where you are then perhaps you could find a way to be there with more ease and joy.

What do we mean by that?

It is always easier to be you, in your totality, weird as that might seem to others.

Many of you don’t want to be thought of as weird and different. It is understandable. You will sense others judgments of you. You will make yourself wrong and then begin to contract again.

There is another way.

Stop making yourselves wrong!

As soon as you accept who you be in all of your weird and wonderful ways and accept it totally, others will begin to accept you. Truly, they will.

It is a bit of a paradox.

You see if you can allow yourself to be comfortable in your own skin then you give others the license to be comfortable in their own skin.

They may still think that you are weird but it will be in a more accepting way and gentler way. Your weirdness and differentness will be perceived as cute and sometimes funny. Would you be okay with that?

We think you might just be!

When you allow for that then you will find that your community expands and extends in all sorts of ways. You will find that you feel at home wherever and whomever you are with.

To begin this process of allowance we have a suggestion for you that will make it easier on everyone.

Take some time to be with yourself and take some time to connect with us and all that is. In that connection is a grace and an ease that will shift your perceptions and relax your being.

Stuff will still happen but it won’t matter to you!

It won’t matter because you are tuned in and you are tapped in to more of you and that dear ones is a wonderful thing.

We see who you are, even when you don’t. We celebrate every moment that you step into the fullness of your being.

There she/he goes again, remembering who they be, remembering that there are always choices to make and within those choices are some perfectly lovely ones that will serve you and your communities well.

That dear ones is a most joyous occasion for everyone involved!

Go For The Joy

Linda and The group


Linda Adsetts is a  healer, medium, psychic reader, channeller and writer. She receives channelled guidance and inspiration from The Group, a gathering of spirit who teach that our souls’ path is best expressed when we come from a place of joy. You can read how Linda got started down this fascinating path here and on her website where she shares daily messages from The Group.

Join her each Friday on Bliss Habits for an inspiring take on each of the habits.


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